John 15:4-5
Apart from Christ, we lack. And in 1 Corinthians 13:2, if I "do not have love, I am nothing". I tend to act based on my feelings even if I have been wronged or hurt by someone. But...
Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account wronged suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)